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14-Jun-2019 00:50

If either are missing we are sad, we are defeated, we are joyless.

In his article 'Invalidation may be the most damaging form of emotional abuse,' Steve Hein describes invalidation as follows...

The emotional processes that worked as a defense for him when a child will probably work against him as an adult.

Invalidation kills confidence, creativity, individuality... and if we do not find a way to re-empower our individual and collective lives and to connect with our humanity it will slowly erode all that we have built into a tower of sand.

Basically, it’s letting another person know that you accept and understand his feelings, whether you agree with what he’s said or not.

For example, in an emotionally invalidating home environment, a child who becomes frustrated and starts to cry may be told, “Stop acting like a baby! As the child matures and the emotional invalidation continues, he may try harder and harder to get his parents to respond to his feelings in positive ways.Invalidation is to reject, ignore, mock, tease, judge, control or diminish someone's feelings.It is an attempt to control how they feel and for how long they feel it.' When another person wrongly evaluates or misunderstands your communications or your state of mind, naturally this is upsetting. If you ignore your own feelings and believe they must be right, you begin to follow their will, not your own.A part of you has identified with the other person and split from the real you. This very commonly occurs with children, where they take on the characteristics of their parents.

For example, in an emotionally invalidating home environment, a child who becomes frustrated and starts to cry may be told, “Stop acting like a baby! As the child matures and the emotional invalidation continues, he may try harder and harder to get his parents to respond to his feelings in positive ways.

Invalidation is to reject, ignore, mock, tease, judge, control or diminish someone's feelings.

It is an attempt to control how they feel and for how long they feel it.

' When another person wrongly evaluates or misunderstands your communications or your state of mind, naturally this is upsetting. If you ignore your own feelings and believe they must be right, you begin to follow their will, not your own.

A part of you has identified with the other person and split from the real you. This very commonly occurs with children, where they take on the characteristics of their parents.

For each question that applies to you, go through the procedure above and see what you can learn from this experience, and what part of yourself you can reintegrate. And perhaps I accept what she says, that I am indeed a useless lover and now I really don't want to make love any more.